Lets get away from the serious issues and concentrate on something which is more general and all of us can relate to.
For the past few days, after the farewell of my school, some juniors have been trying to share a good bond with me. One of this junior whom I never saw, and who is way younger to me, said 'Hi' and the very next thing she said was, "Do you know any ways to lose weight, or diet????"
I was shocked! Not because I haven't heard what dieting is, but because of the fact that a twelve year old girl, asked me about methods of dieting, where in fact what she should think about her life, cute guys, and other things than looking down upon herself.
When I was twelve, I remember, I was fat. I mean I am still fat.
I never thought of dieting, or thinking that nobody likes me because I look ugly!
I had a good life. A friend very supportive, a family supportive enough. I was sixteen when I had concerns on my weight, and that happened because I had a massive crush on a guy, who was a school hot property. Soon that charm went off my mind. And I realised there will be someone.
Someone who will love you not for your exterior qualities, but what you have inside. Someone who will say, "Yeah! I am here to protect you!"
"You are beautiful just the way you are!"
"Screw everyone who made you feel low! I will make sure they feel even more lower!"
NOT JUST FOR GIRLS!
I have also seen boys who feel low because they thinnk they are going to die alone. They change themselves to the extent that they forget who they really are! They become cheezy for a hottie, nerd for a girl next door, turn dawn into dusk if the girl says so.
What a girl wants is just you to be you. No pretence.
If you are a jerk, be one! Coz there is always someone who desperately wants you in her life too...
Well, for every girl, there is no prince charming, the one who will sweep you away on a horse, in a tuxedo. But there is something even better.
Someone who will propose you in such a way that its simple, maybe crazy, but will touch your heart so much, that you will be bound to say, "Yes! I have got the one for me!"
Someone out there will accept the way you are, he will fight, be crazy, pamper you, make you feel what you're worth!!!! Just you should not be hesitant to express yourself well.....
All you need is patience!
For the past few days, after the farewell of my school, some juniors have been trying to share a good bond with me. One of this junior whom I never saw, and who is way younger to me, said 'Hi' and the very next thing she said was, "Do you know any ways to lose weight, or diet????"
I was shocked! Not because I haven't heard what dieting is, but because of the fact that a twelve year old girl, asked me about methods of dieting, where in fact what she should think about her life, cute guys, and other things than looking down upon herself.
When I was twelve, I remember, I was fat. I mean I am still fat.
I never thought of dieting, or thinking that nobody likes me because I look ugly!
I had a good life. A friend very supportive, a family supportive enough. I was sixteen when I had concerns on my weight, and that happened because I had a massive crush on a guy, who was a school hot property. Soon that charm went off my mind. And I realised there will be someone.
Someone who will love you not for your exterior qualities, but what you have inside. Someone who will say, "Yeah! I am here to protect you!"
"You are beautiful just the way you are!"
"Screw everyone who made you feel low! I will make sure they feel even more lower!"
NOT JUST FOR GIRLS!
I have also seen boys who feel low because they thinnk they are going to die alone. They change themselves to the extent that they forget who they really are! They become cheezy for a hottie, nerd for a girl next door, turn dawn into dusk if the girl says so.
What a girl wants is just you to be you. No pretence.
If you are a jerk, be one! Coz there is always someone who desperately wants you in her life too...
Well, for every girl, there is no prince charming, the one who will sweep you away on a horse, in a tuxedo. But there is something even better.
Someone who will propose you in such a way that its simple, maybe crazy, but will touch your heart so much, that you will be bound to say, "Yes! I have got the one for me!"
Someone out there will accept the way you are, he will fight, be crazy, pamper you, make you feel what you're worth!!!! Just you should not be hesitant to express yourself well.....
All you need is patience!
I wish I had read this 3 years before & that you had written this 3 years before...
ReplyDeleteI could then be with such a person..
You have actually wrote down my mind...a perfect xerox copy...and I am really grateful to you about this...
keep it up!
Thank you so much! :)
DeleteI am glad that you liked it.. Yes even I made a wrong decision by not making this blog a few years ago. May be I could change few things, in my life.
By the way, as far as your being with the perfect person, its never too late!
Be in touch... :)